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Originally Posted by sweetpea
ummm... that's called RAPE! 'rightfully yours'?? I don't mean to sound rude, but my first thought when i read that was "you're sick." Do you know that is the reason that most rapists give?? not a good lot of people to be aligned with....
seriously, be a little more sensitive when giving advice... such advice would lead to a Divorce right away... and also probably a criminal case.
Sweetpea
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Hehe, actually, I think he's talking about bondage when he says "tie her up". It can be a huge turn on for some (actually i dare say most enjoy it some form...being tied up and teased can be niiiice), and definately rocket fuel for a sex drive. Doesnt sound to me like you've really tried it to know.
seems this relationship has plenty of love and tenderness, but what it might not have, when it comes to the sex part, is excitement. Experimenting with kinky things like bondage could be the answer.
But looking for sex elsewhere is a one-way ticket to divorce lane if you ask me. Id rather get tough with her than cheat. Maybe im a "jerk" and make threats and demands to make things work, but I dont cheat on my girl.