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Such a difficult place. Sounds like you're very loyal if it has taken you this long to figure out if you want to look elsewhere. Hate to say it, but I'm going to have to go with those who recommend sitting down and having a frank discussion, including asking if she is cheating. Find out what options she wants to give you. One day a month has to be painful. See if she would be ok with you seeing someone else to meet your needs. Even suggesting something as drastic as that might just be the "bomb" to show her it's a real issue.
Sounds like you're trying to be romantic and encouraging. That's good to hear. Find out what issues are going along with this limited sex drive. Ask often if she would be willing to see a doctor or a counselor about this. Show her it's about her health as well as your own. Is she on some sort of new religious kick that encourages abstinence? Is she cheating on you? Does she enjoy torturing you? Does she just not realize how challenging this is for you?
Good luck.
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