A real mixed bag at this end.
Look I tend to exclude women who are too ambiguous from my scope. I have other things to do than mess around trying to figure a woman out. And I've avoided getting to know anyone who's clearly drunk, very young, in another relationship, chatting with all the guys or a crappy conversationalist.
And having done that... yeah it's still a mixed bag. Overall I'd say that I've rarely met shy girls. My theory is that they shy girls often end up besotted with the dedicated players at least in their first few relationships. And ditto I think for the guys... if we're not particularly outgoing or "competitive" in conversation at parties - we tend to get more hookups with "experienced" or relatively outgoing women. That's in the initial adult years.
Just a theory.
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