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Originally Posted by doncalypso
Rather than be tempted to cheat because your spouse is denying you sex it is wiser to pull the plug on the marriage and be freed up to meet other people.
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ACK! Do we ONLY get married to have a convenient sex partner, or is it because we LOVE the person whom we're marrying?
Divorce gets you out of the sexless marriage, but doesn't help the one person whom you've pledged to help above all else. Part of the problem with this is the fact that divorce is completely and utterly selfish. The wife's lack of libido is more than likely NOT a selfish act - something's wrong.
It may be physical, psychological, or something in the relationship, but if you fix what's WRONG, you fix the problem.
Now, if you go through counseling, check her out medically, make sure everything's alright...do weekly dates, make things more romantic, THEN she's still not getting her libido back... Then and only then would I even suggest considering divorce.