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Have some girls I talk with online that complain that their boyfriends dont seem to like sex. She wants it everyday, where as he's satifisied with a paltry few times a month. And yes, this flips me out.
You know what sucks though? Its what would happen if you left her for a woman with a supposedly higher sex drive. Hypotheticly speaking, lets say your now ex-wife got together with a new man. Lets be honest here...what kind of sex drive would she exhibit with her new man in those first months? And why?
If you want to rekindle her libido, then its up to YOU (no, the both of you, but you'll get faster effect if you take responsibility) to make things more exciting. You have to find ways to break the pattern of monotony. Get kinky, play games, Roleplay, whatever. Plenty of literature on the subject, so start looking. But one things for sure, if you dont do something to jumpstart your sex life, you will end up getting a divorce, or resolving yourself to a marriage where sex is more like a holiday (thanksgiving).
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