Try the random flowers/dinner/wine/flattery route if you haven't already. You may temporarily have some positive results. Honestly though you shouldn't be expected to make a huge production every time you want a little nookie. And we all know that romantic favors will quickly become unromantic if it becomes as common as your libido demands.
If you really feel you have exhausted your possibilities to a reasonable degree it's time to start looking for someone else. I recommend cheating as this will give you romantic exposure to someone else, something you haven't had for 25 years. Also if you're careful your wife won't notice at all . She'll probably be relieved that you're not pestering her twice a day for a blowjob. You may very well find that although you can probably easily find a better match sexually, you won't be able to stand the person on any other level.
It's not the first thing you should try, but yep cheating is sometimes the answer.
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