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Originally Posted by Anxst
Remember, she does want sex, her drive is just lower. That means you have to help her build up desire. Find out what will currently help her build up that desire throughout the day and start building on it. Don't be pushy, she'll most definitely NOT be turned on by that. Just have a talk about it, and find out what she wants, and see if she'll trade what you want for it. You'll most likely find you both want the same thing, you just have different ways of receiving those goals.
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Awesome point. When I (as a girl) know a guy im with is lusting for nothign more than sex, its a big turnoff. *click* game over turnoff. If the passion is missing, is the romance? trying introducing romance back into it, becuase romance tends to lead to more. ANd i dont mean you have to buy big bouquet of roses or anything, but make sincere comments to boost morale and leave little notes and gifts and just thoughts to keep you in her mind throughout the day. Go dancing, go to ice cream, go see a movie. Spend time together in that kind of way and perhaps it will lead to more.