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Originally Posted by Truenorth
I have been married for 17 years, with the same lady for 25 and love her. She also loves me, but her sexual drive is down. It could and must be hormonal because the only time she wants it is when ovulating. But for me once per month is not enough! We talked about it and she sees nothing wrong. I am going nuts. Should I find someone to fill the need with someone looking for the same. Looking for sex, not more? Sounds bad, but that is what is happening!
What would you all do?
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Talk to her about it... If that doesn't work see a doctor to find out whether her lack of libido is due to a hormonal imbalance. If there is no medical reason and she's just holding out on you then you have the choice of accepting the fact that you won't be getting much sex, or else divorce her.
Whatever you do, please do
not cheat on her. If she's holding out on you then kick her to the curb, but don't cheat on her.