Originally Posted by ryfo

Have you explained that once a month is not enough for you? Remember, women like to be hugged and kissed as well as the intercourse . Maybe plan a romantic night and see what happens, you know flowers, dinner maybe a massage and let her know that you do love her, no matter what. I think looking for it, especially if she is unaware and without her consent is a one way trip into a very unhappy marriage. If all else fails see if she is interested in couples counselling, that may help