well first off, finding someone else to fill the need spells the immediate demise of your marriage. Unless she's okay with it, but 95% of the time they wont be (and even if they say they're cool with it).
Beyond that, youll have to wait for more advice from elsewhere. But i'd nix that option, people will end up hurt, youll end up lonely, and trust me, even sex wont fill that void.
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