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The fact that we still think losing your virginity is the modern equivilent to putting on a cloak of bravery shows how sex obsessed we are as a culture.
I mean, why do people feel they are defined through only one aspect of thier personality? 'Did i screw' Do i screw'?
While on the other hand, when my best friend told me she was not a virgin (Shes an ex-religious girl, and comes off as being still a little in to it, if you see my meaning.) it changed the way i felt about her. I was more relaxed towrds her, and alot less self-concious about language, for instance. (I have a potty mouth sometimes.)
For myself, I started to gain confidence, but only as a result of other life-changes, not the sexx itself.
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