eeerrr...someone explain why it would be funny to burn a hole in your "best friend's" planner? I don't get it. No, really. It's not funny at all.
It's a shame it got out of hand but it WAS your fault that it happened in the first place.
I don't know your friend but perhaps she has been targeted for practical jokes and unpleasant situations before. You should know. If she says you should have known she would hate it, then you REALLY should have known.
Playing a joke for laughs at your best friend's expense, that involves destroying something she owns and is, on top of things, personal, is pretty dumb.
I'm NOT saying I'm perfect but I can see why she'd be angry. Next time don't do it. I hope she accepts your apology.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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