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jRuntlets · 10-21-2005, 02:46 PM

Jinn, you interpret me wrong... I don't think he's a bad guy, I just think that he didn't give me enough of a chance. I think he's a great guy which is why I'm so upset that he only gave me FOUR days to improve on things I was working on before I met him. I think it is bad that he expected a drastic change in me over such a short period of time, without support from him.

I think it is BAD that men have a common tendency to tell women "Yes, I like you, yes, I think you're worthwhile." While dumping you. NO, you don't like me, NO you don't think I'm worthwhile and that's why you're dumping me. Would it kill anyone to be straightfoward!?

I was upfront from the get go with him, on the first date I told him "I'm self concious about myself, because I've had a hard time. I've been working really hard to be happy with myself physically and put myself out there in relationships." If he didn't want it, he had the out there on the first date. But what kills me is that I dragged this out of him, he had no intention of saying anything... but he intended to act distant hoping that I would get the hint. That is what hurts my confidence. I put myself out there, and someone who knows I'm not confident, plays games like this. If you don't like someone tell them. It hurts less to be told sooner rather than later.

10-21-2005, 02:46 PM	#12 (permalink)
jRuntlets Crazy	Jinn, you interpret me wrong... I don't think he's a bad guy, I just think that he didn't give me enough of a chance. I think he's a great guy which is why I'm so upset that he only gave me FOUR days to improve on things I was working on before I met him. I think it is bad that he expected a drastic change in me over such a short period of time, without support from him. I think it is BAD that men have a common tendency to tell women "Yes, I like you, yes, I think you're worthwhile." While dumping you. NO, you don't like me, NO you don't think I'm worthwhile and that's why you're dumping me. Would it kill anyone to be straightfoward!? I was upfront from the get go with him, on the first date I told him "I'm self concious about myself, because I've had a hard time. I've been working really hard to be happy with myself physically and put myself out there in relationships." If he didn't want it, he had the out there on the first date. But what kills me is that I dragged this out of him, he had no intention of saying anything... but he intended to act distant hoping that I would get the hint. That is what hurts my confidence. I put myself out there, and someone who knows I'm not confident, plays games like this. If you don't like someone tell them. It hurts less to be told sooner rather than later. __________________ Horses come and go, but some leave permanent hoof prints on your life.