There's nothing I can add that hasn't already been said, but I do want to reinforce the control aspect of some of the replies already. I believe she's trying to test the conviction of this break-up and whether or not she can still get you to do her bidding. I don't think it's intentional, but it's manipulative and the one thing I really don't like is being manipulated, so I'd also echo BigBen by saying make a clean break. If you want to remain friends, that's fine, but give it a lot of time before you open that door. The break-up is still too fresh for that to be possible.
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