From your description, no, he was not fair. You can't expect someone to change a part of their personality in a few days based upon a request.
It sounds to me like he wanted to be with someone like you, and you fit the description of what he wanted, with just one thing missing. In my opinion that is not a good way to have a relationship, you shouldn't be with someone because they almost fit your idea of a perfect partner, and you think you can change them to fit that idea. Both people in the relationship should want to be with each other, faults and all, and work on changing together, because both people want to, not just because one partner would prefer the other to be a certain way.
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