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Originally Posted by Temporary_User
yeah, i don't know if no-strings is what she is looking for or not...
I kind of feel that even if we started w/ no strings, it would lead to strings...
it seems that is just human nature. girls that ive met seem to always want a relatiionship. i guess ill have to see if she calls me again...
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No. Don't walk down that road. You have no idea how bad it can be.
There will be strings, young man, whether you see them or not... and think about the moment of truth when the two of you are going through your post-coital routine. Fucking awkward.
She wants to see if she still has power over you. If you consent to Breakup-sex, you are giving her power. If that is okay with you, proceed with caution. I am guessing it isn't.
She will call again, I am sure; you need to pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back out there. I really wish there was a support group for recently divorced/seperated/split-up men. Beard-growing, Beer-Drinking and Chili-Cooking contests that would help in the healing process.
Dude, I am in the same situation you are in, except I am married. Think about that for a second. I am telling you to cut this cleanly, and don't look back. You will thank me later. Now go and eat some red meat and start on those sideburns.
Hold on a second... Did I just give a guy advice and tell him NOT to have sex with a woman? Man, I must be more fucked up than I thought... I DON'T TAKE BACK WHAT I SAID, I WAS JUST MAKING AN OBSERVATION!!!