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Originally Posted by ratbastid
Okay, first of all, you've got to tell your wife all about this. And I mean all about it. And she needs to tell her husband all about it. Don't be melodramatic about it. You have nothing to confess--as you say, you've done nothing wrong--but you need to be in communication about it.
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I think that is the wrong thing to do - it can cause a lot of unneccessary heartache.
If you think you might really be tempted, and you'd really rather have a happy marriage, then break it off. If you know you won't be tempted, then it's your own conscience you have to answer to (as to whether the flirting may constitute "cheating" on some level).
There's a couple of women in my office I flirt with regularly, it's no big deal. My wife works in the same office, so having an affair would be pretty damn difficult without her figuring it out!