I really don't know what is stopping him. I think that he doesn't know how serious I am on the subject, and I am going to change that.
And Nancy, I understand where you are coming from with this. I know it is hard to find a good man. But being married some day is important to me. I need that kind of committment. If he isn't willing to provide it, I need to find it somewhere else. I don't want to have to leave him, and lord knows when it comes down to it I won't have to. But this is a dealbreaker for me. Some people would leave people because of drugs or smoking or a porn obsession. I am fine with smoking, and I am fine with a slight porn obsession. But for me, my deal breaker is marriage. Drugs, too. But that isn't the topic right now.
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