this looks like the best gun to me.  It's the Jericho 941
Specifications
Caliber  
9mm Para, .40S&W, .45ACP, .41AE 
Weight  
920g 
Length  
192mm 
Barrel length  
96mm 
Capacity  
16 (9mm), 12 (.40), 10 (.45) rounds
 
Its not that heavy and it fires 9mm bullets apparently, so it shouldnt have too much of a kick.  And it must be good quality, as it is made by the best gun company in the world.