this looks like the best gun to me. It's the Jericho 941
Specifications
Caliber
9mm Para, .40S&W, .45ACP, .41AE
Weight
920g
Length
192mm
Barrel length
96mm
Capacity
16 (9mm), 12 (.40), 10 (.45) rounds
Its not that heavy and it fires 9mm bullets apparently, so it shouldnt have too much of a kick. And it must be good quality, as it is made by the best gun company in the world.