I'm a guy and I do think that losing my virginity did change me. I usually have very low self-esteem and self-image. So the first time that I did it (it was boredom sex), it was like a wake up call to my self-image, gave me a big boost in my self-confidence. And even after having my ex basically tell me she thought she could do better than me when she left me, I feel that I still have a higher level of self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-image than I did before I lost my virginity. Of course that could just be me going into a delusional state of denial.
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