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Originally Posted by cptgreedle
I am truely offended by the first statment.
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Originally Posted by cptgreedle
In fact, i doubt any of you who have not also made this choice could hold out for so long.
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Sorry if this is blunt, but it sounds like you are a little judgemental yourself of people who didn't "hold out for so long." I'm sorry you were offended, but please try not to talk down in return.
I don't want to repeat the several posts I have made on this thread (have you read all of them?), but I think you should know that not everyone looks down on those who wait until marriage. I used to be a wait-till-marriage type, too, and I don't make fun of those who choose to wait. Please be careful of who you are responding to, here on TFP... not everyone is against you.
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We look forward to out first night of passion together, especially with all the ideas we find online  |
Sorry to say it, but there's a good chance that that "first night of passion" will be rather awkward and very likely painful (for her). I highly recommend not building up too many expectations for that first night, or even the first few weeks/months... just take it slow and explore each other. Almost all of my friends who waited till marriage had a rude awakening that first night, when they discovered that sex wasn't all that "natural" or easy.
By the way, what lies behind your decision to wait? Just wondering, since you didn't mention anything religious in your post, and most people who wait do so because of religion.