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Originally Posted by tecoyah
You are a lucky guy....you get to learn the hardest lesson women have to teach us early on. -snip- Women have a tendency to test men without intending to, much as we men test them, but only realize we do so after the fact.
My advice is simple....look somewhat deeper than you currently are at the reasons for this situation...and then act on what you see.It may be the best thing your relationship has ever had.
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As usual, Tec speaks from VERY good experience. And you are lucky... I think most guys get jaded by their early experiences with women before ever trying to learn (and change) as a result... by the time they realize how much they're missing, they're too bitter for anyone's taste. I think this goes for women as well as men, but men are (sorry) a little more notorious for being slow learners, esp. in relationships. Learn what you can NOW, and without losing her, if possible.
And yep, try to understand how YOU are testing her, as well... most guys don't see this side of things, only how *they* have every right to be pissed off at the woman.