Analog, I guess that's a possibility, but knowing my girlfriend, I don't think that's quite the case. She's been hurt, she's sensitive to these things, and is honestly trying to get over it -- and I trust and believe her. When she says she wants to mean Sarah, I seriously believe that she wants to meet her, not to pass judgment, but just to see her as a person and not this "mystery" or "fear" that Sarah has become or represents. Kind of like meeting your SO's parents for the first time -- you might be anxious/nervous for whatever reason, but after the fact it isn't all that big a deal.
Not sure what you meant by the "7 years" Redlemon...I've been friends with Sarah that long, but Sarah and my GF are from completely different places, so it's more just circumstance than "hiding" that explains why they haven't met. Plus, it just seems weird to visit Sarah with the only pretense being so my GF can meet her. Or do you not think that's all that weird?
On another note, my GF called last night and we chatted for a bit. She felt bad about getting upset yesterday and wanted to apologize for letting things bother her. What a great girl...
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