I have a very close male friend....we've been friends for...god 20 years now...met him when I was 17..we too tried to "date", it didnt work we made far better friends.
We've taken trips together, share the same hotel rooms on those trips, we hang out, with and without Dave....when Dave goes out of town for work and he calls he usually knows that sometimes he'll find me with Mark.
I have no respect for anyone, male or female, that tries to say you cant be friends only....close friends...with a member of the opposite sex or who gets jealous baout it.
I see nothing wrong with what you've described.....IMO, for what its worth...I wouldnt date somebody that tried to tell me I couldnt hang out with Mark....and I have refused to date a few people that had issues with it.
The few CLOSE friendships I have with people....and I mean people that I would do absolutely anything for...anytime- day or night- are important to me, as they should be important to the person that considers themself to be my significant other.
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I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!
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