The internet wasn't available much when I was a teenager. It wasn't available at all when I was 12 and 13. YET I found my grandpa's stash of magazines. I checked them out at every opportunity I got. To be honest I'm glad I did. I wasn't completely freaked out about having sex the first time. I wasn't a nervous tense wreck and anticipated it with relish. I have heard so many stories of women who were sooo tense that sex would hurt the first time. I was aware that discomfort was a possibility but I was so excited about it that I barely noticed the discomfort.
I don't see how a teenage kid seeing a little porn is so terrible. NOW as for him being on the computer too much. He's not getting the sunshine and excercise needed for good bone and muscle growth. THAT'S where the parents were most lax. If he'd not had the chance to be on the computer so much he wouldn't have see much porn or sex.
I also take offense at the person who included that the mother who was cooking dinner was a bitch. I'm sorry but dinner's gotta be made. Please don't make blanket statements such as this. Yes, she was stupid to not check up on the kid. She wasn't slacking to be fixing dinner.
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