Once you've finished getting through the "know each other's body"... if you and your partner are still mad about anal sex, tell her/him to try out a house-made enema. There are household stuff people can use to clean up their buttocks before trying something like anal sex. (Poop is most of the times a turn off)
If you don't want to go to a public place, try the following method. You'll need a clean, empty shampoo bottle, removable top (like those Head&Shoulders bottles). Also, the person receiving the enema will have to sit on a toilet... of course.
Fill the bottle with water, then take turns with your partner by plugging it in the butthole, squishing it (thus making water go into the person's rectum, making most of the doodie come out) (don't un-squish yet), then unplug... therefore letting the water-based santorum go into the toilet's water (move your hands quickly or it'll fall on them).
That's something you can both try if you're feeling like experimenting with cleanliness... (you should still use protection, afterwards).
As for lubes, after having the enema, soap seems to be really good. Don't use too much or it can hurt a bit.
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