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Originally Posted by MooseMan3000
Just a piece of advice:
STOP WORRYING SO MUCH.
4) RELAX. Breathe. I understand dating can be nerve-racking, but that's the nature of the game. This is a corollary to point number 3. If you don't relax, if you don't stop worrying so much about every action, about "how soon should I call?" about "what does it mean when he touches me with his left foot instead of his right?" you'll never get anywhere.
5) Stop trying to read "signals." Try using words. They work wonders. Seriously, if you can't talk to someone, good luck having a relationship.
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Yeah, what he said.
Key word, relax. Just give it a few days. There's always another bar with with guys from Oregan who'll hit on you, take you back to their place and leave you wondering if they're nice guys the next day. 
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Roger Zelazny
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