fretter

I'm a heterosexual male in my mid 40s. A year or so ago I started developing this weird reaction. When talking on the phone or even e-mailing a woman I leak a lot of pre cum - without any erection or sense that I am sexually stimulated - these are generally non suggestive, non erotic conversations. This also happens in the presence of certain women. And if I get into a foreplay situation (even just kissing) I leak even more (from being hard). Up until last year this virtually never happened.

This doesn't occur with all women. When with ex lovers, even those I still desire it rarely happens. Nor with women friends.

It's driving me crazy as it creates very embarrassing situations, plus is just plain uncomfortable getting all wet. I seem to have no control over this new penile behavior.

Anyone out there with similar experience or have ideas/suggestions how to overcome (no pun intended) this problem? Any idea what might have caused it?

Many thanks.