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Old 10-10-2005, 08:27 AM   #74 (permalink)
motdakasha
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Originally Posted by ruggerp11
Also, what happenes if you and your married partner are completely sexually incompatible?
I really don't think that's possible. In terms of physically fitting together, that is definitely possible in every situation if you're willing to get together to figure out what works. In terms of preferences, however, there might be differences from small to great, but as long as both parties are willing to compromise, ends can always be met.

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Originally Posted by simivin
You said it is like a boulder in a sack that you carry around. Is it something you think about often? Do you regret sharing sex with someone you didn't care enough about? Do you regret that you didn't wait? Or treat sex differently? etc.
For me, I find I recall bad experiences when I'm daydreaming or not really paying attention to the direction of my meanderings. Then, I cringe, shake it out, and think of something else. It has changed my approach to sex in that I try to be more cautious about my decisions. It's a lot like when you think back about what you did that day, then think of the things you should have said or could've done, but it's too late, and then you get over it. No harm done.


Also, last time I checked, the statistics show that despite social pressures for everyone to have sex, you'll find the majority is abstinent or still virgin. (Remember: In the US, the majority population is religious, and usually one of several major religions that preaches abstinence.) The only reason statistics for STIs and things are increasing is not because more people of having sex than what used to be "normal," but because those persons who were already having sex are just not practicing safe sex.
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