With long distance relationships, the day to day contact and activity does not exist in the same way - with you gone, she could still talk to you and have your relationship, but she "did" things with her other friends - all the socializing it sounds like you resent because it takes time away from the two of you. My personal interpretation is that you being almost done, and willing/ready to move there means that your relationship would ultimately move to a higher level ... and it appears she is either not ready for that or is not interested in pursuing that, right now.
The world of college is soo much different than high school... and ultimately, if you want what is best for her, give her the freedom she requests with no strings attached.
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Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna
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