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so dont look at it as a break up.look at it as a chance to try out new things.i can honestly say that i dont know what i would do if my bf wanted a break or put our relationship on hold but i can only hope that i'll beable to see it as a chance to start afresh.
trust me i understand that you must be feeling you cant go on because all you've known for the past two years is her. trust me it's not going to be easy and you've got to cry about it, its the only way you can get over it. it's the only way you can truley move on.And, the one thing you shouldnt do is hold grudges, lifes to short for that plus frowning all the time gives you wrinkles.
take your time in getting over this, feel sorry for yourself a little bit just not too much:-)but also, dont take too long. because, in the end, you did learn from her and in turn she learned from you.
use this as an opportunity to use what you have learned in trying to find happiness with someone else.
my bf and i were going through a rough patch and in fact still are but working through it and one time we were chatting about me in the depressive state that i was in because of him being away from home working and stuff, it was hard and still is for me to accept sometimes but he told me , and this is something i will always remember, "you've got to be happy as an individual before you can be happy with someone"
it has stuck with me ever since and i just thought i'd share that with you.
i wish you good luck on your journey to happiness and hope you come out on top and find what you need and what you deserve.
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