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Break-ups are always tough, but it really sucks when one person is completley blindsided. The fact that she's essentially abandoning you means that she's been wanting out for a while, but it was easier just to keep the charade going until now. And now that she is out, she doesn't want to face you because there's a part of her that feels guilty... she's simply taking the easy way out.
What you need to do now is let go. She's already moved on and is trying to find someone to fill the roles you played for the past 2+ years... I suggest you do the same. I know it sucks to think about how much you poured into this relationship, seemingly all for nothing now... but there's always something to be learned from situations like this. Take time to reflect, then get on with your life... don't make things overly complicated.
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