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Being in a long distance relationship, i can slightly relate to your problem, except i feel no need to explore other relationships, and neither does my lover. That she does is not wrong, however.
She's young, and has probably never felt this independence before. It's possible that
after exploring the college scene she may return to wanting a relationship, but the
chances of her liking it, and sticking with it for some time are just as big.
While she is exploring herself and her new surroundings, you may be stuck alone,
so i say you get out there and do some exploring yourself. Who knows, you may
find somebody just as, or even more compatible, because from what i read, she has
changed quite a bit from who she was when you met.
I don't belive in relationship 'holds', so that is my advice. I think they just bring
more needless distress. If some time from now she returns to you, make sure you're
not still bitter about this, because potentially that could eventually tear you two apart.
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