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Shoe, from what I've read from your op and your responses, this relationship sounds like it needs a lot of work. As stragefamous said, jealousy can tear a relationship apart because of the non-trust issue. If she has done things in the past that have broken your trust and you still think of them, the relationship is not healthy because you are constantly thinking, in the back of your mind anyway, that she is cheating on you now. I would sit down and have a discussion with her about the night in question. Ask her why her greeting was so short and why she brought that particular guy and why she didn't move when you came in. Discuss how you feel and why you are jealous. If the discussion goes well and you can trust her, then keep the lines of communication opened and there may be hope. However, if the dicussion does not go well and you still feel jealous you've got to leave. I have been in jealous relationships on both sides. When I was jealous, I was never happy and when he was the jealous one, I was never happy. It is not a way to live. Maybe she just isn't the right one. You deserve to be happy and to be in a relationship with no jealousy involved. Good luck!
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