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					Originally Posted by Nimetic
					
				 Us guys, we just want sex - women are better planners.  She probably wants this to be a special memory.  Well maybe. | 
	
   Yeah, I'd have to agree with Nimetic.  I mean, MAYBE... since I know that some women are all about the sex, too.  But for most of us females, we can't really let go and get into the physical without having a whole lotta verbal/emotional lovin' before hand.  Little things, non-sexual touching, small affirmations throughout the day... those are what really turn us on, when it comes time for the nooky.
Good luck, and have fun!  I remember the first time a guy got a hard-on while making out with me... I thought it was cute that he was so shy about it (once I figured out what it was!!) 

  Talking/joking about it definitely creates some bonding opportunities.  
