If you ask me, it sounds like she wants some words about what she means to you, etc. I make no pretensions as to really understanding women, but it seems you've hit her horny button without hitting her love button. She want's to have all the pieces of the jigsaw then she'll let go. I reckon she thinks it'd be nicer to get this all sorted first - then to make love. And she may have a point.
Mind you I'm hypocritical bastard. But that's how I'm reading it from here. Especially if you both just sorta drifted into being girl/boyfriend like you describe... She needs to have some romance before you have that special moment don't you think? Maybe a dinner out. Time on the beach. You know... Us guys, we just want sex - women are better planners. She probably wants this to be a special memory. Well maybe.
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