I have been going through an office flirtation also and my advice....step back now!! It has gotten to be a very uncomfortable situation for me and I am not sure if I will be able to continue working with him. We never intended it to get further than just teasing and flirting, but have walked the edge now and it is not a good feeling. Neither of us feels good about the situation and are working hard at just avoiding each other right now. The worst thing about the whole thing is that he was probably my best friend for a long time and our spouses accept that we are great friends. Nothing further is going to become of our flirtation but I feel like I have cheated my husband just by developing feelings for this co-worker. It is easy to say you have boundaries, and I hope your situation ends without tears or divorce, but I would be careful,
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