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"The reality is this... you've had sex with some people, and I've had sex with some people. I'm sure that also holds true for all those people as well. Bottom line is, I care alot about us, and I want to make sure whenever it is we become physical, we can do it without having to think about the past- only the future. So, I think it's a good idea for us both to go get checked out, just to be sure we're ok."
Something like that if you're the romantic type, or if you have more of a romantic relationship. If she'd not all about the honey and roses and sugary romance cards, then deliver it straight-out.
"I've had sex with people, you've had sex with people. Regardless of the our pasts, you're a great chick and i want us to have a good future, so let's get tested to be sure everything's cool. There's really no reason not to, it's the smart thing to do."
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