well, after reading this thread, i HAD to respond. Being that I am into anal, the best way I have found to numb thepain for entry is... believeit or not... oragel. try it. it has a 20% base of benzocaine... and is a good numbing agent... and let me tell you, once you get in there, its all on cause you are some what numbed and cant feel thepressurre on entry!