I think it's common sense in this day and age to get mutual tests (unless you know FOR SURE that one or both of you have never contacted another human being via their nether regions before). I certainly wouldn't find it insulting... in fact, I'd respect it a lot if that question came up (esp. after 2 months together!) from the guy. And if someone DIDN'T want to get a test before sex and show me the results, there's no way in hell I'd sleep with them, not even for a one-night stand or whatever. So bring it up as sincerely as possible, and make it obvious that BOTH of you should be tested, and I can't imagine her reacting badly (unless she's a little odd).
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