Hey Frogza - I'm new here, but wanted to say hi and good luck to you in your attempts to have children. I have two children - one biological (my son) and one that we adopted (my daughter). Having had a biological child and having also adopted, I can honestly say that each is incredibly exciting and miraculous in its own way. Having said that, I know that I can only say that I would happily adopt again (instead of having another biological child) because I was able to conceive and bear a child. It was an experience I wanted to have- and I know I'd always wonder if I hadn't - but again, I loved the experiences I had in meeting my daughter and getting to know her as much as I loved the experience of having my son. Different - certainly - but each just as amazing as the other.
Whatever works out for you - it will be what is meant to be for your family. My daughter was meant to be my child, just as surely as my son was- I truly believe that. Either way - it's a beautiful thing. I wish you the best.
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