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I wasn't gong to post... but I'll go ahead against my better judgement. Because I am really not an expert in this, but I play one on the internets!
apolian, don't be hurt, don't be offended by what you read here. What people are telling you is that YOU are 100% responsible for what goes on in your relationship. Not 78%. Not 50%. Not 2.11% So sorry that you've dated "unfaithful" women.
Been there bro. Who hasn't? What I learned is that I don't share a whole lot with people who have a readily available escape clause. It sounds like this girl doesn't want that with you. She's ::gasp:: <I>concerned</I> about what you think and cares about and she's searching to learn that.
Listen to this: Congrats. This girl is probably REALLY into you. It takes some people years to match up. You may not like it, you may think it's great. To make it go beyond the here and now takes your mouth, talking to her. Man up, and figure out where you want this to go.
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I think the Apocalypse is happening all around us. We go on eating desserts and watching TV. I know I do. I wish we were more capable of sustained passion and sustained resistance. We should be screaming and what we do is gossip. -Lydia Millet
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