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I pretty much agree with everything yon bastid said, with trivial provisions that it's got to be 100-0 from both sides or it won't work, but I think his last line kind of covers it.
As a play off abaya's conversation openers, I'd suggest just sitting down with her, no TV etc - and lead off with what you're thinking. Take all the stuff you've been saying on this board, and tell her in sentence structures that possess the thoughts. Don't start with "you tell me what you're feeling" but start with "I feel / I've been thinking..." You might feel like the responsbility is all on you, but I'll pretty much promise you'll feel better if you're a little proactive in this.
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