I have been married for 10 years and during that time I have come to one conclusion.
The WOW factor is a dangerous thing.
When you meet someone new and are attracted to them, you go insane. Called it phermones or hormones or whatever. It's after that wears off that you really know that you are in love with a person.
The question is this: Is Jen his best friend?
If that's the case, then stick it out.
That's all that matters in a long-term relationship -- communication and trust. If you don't have those two things, your doomed.
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