How often are you forced to play the guessing game? Is it only about the abortion or is she just the type to say something inciteful and then shut down?
I've been in a relationship where the other person wasn't communicative and it was hard for me because I wanted her to understand that some of the things she said, hurt me. It was a matter of respect and consideration. If the other person can't do those things, and since those things are necessary for someone like myself to feel loved, then I could only conclude that she wasn't the right person for me. Everyone deserves to be loved in the way that makes them feel loved. Make sure you are not settling for something less than you deserve because it's better to be alone than in a horrible relationship. Horrible relationships scar for life.
Being alone just fills your computer with porn.
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