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apolian,
Playing off some of the earlier comments - is it correct to state that when she makes a comment about the abortion, you clam up...and when you bring it up "formerly" she doesn't want to talk about it? I think that's the whole situation - y'all need to talk about it, and either you need to be insistent on it when you approach, or you need to be receptive to the conversation when she brings it up. If her emotions about it are essentially repressed, as far as sharing them with you in concerned, she won't be able to gain closure and it will keep festering. Sometimes you just need to talk about an issue with the other people intimately involved...and my guess is, similar to the previous posters, that she will continue thinking about this off and on for the rest of her life.
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