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Well, for starters, get your birth control working right. Double up so your risk is infinitesmally small--use condoms AND the pill, for example. DON'T LET THIS HAPPEN AGAIN. Regardless of the moral implications, she may not be willing to have another abortion after the trauma she's received. Ask yourself whether you're ready to have a baby, and if the answer is no, then make sure it doesn't happen.
This will also help her recover by making sure she doesn't feel stress or guilt over continuing to have sex when she's already had these consequences and she fears them happening again.
Finally, keep in mind that many women will "accidentally" (subconsciously) mess up their birth control pills when they are feeling guilt over an abortion--they want a chance to do it again and make a different choice. Doubling up on birth control using a barrier or IUD will make sure this doesn't happen.
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