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Originally Posted by leftyderek
Opening yourself up first is always a good way to get a person opened up for you.
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Yep. It sounds like you're kinda missing her signals. Open yourself up and be willing to talk about something difficult. It's really frustrating when only one person in a relationship/friendship is willing to bring up difficult topics... it's such a relief when the other person opens up and becomes vulnerable, instead of shutting down and ignoring (not addressing) the problem. Be as vulnerable as you can, both with yourself and her... that's true intimacy, and a situation as sensitive as this one demands nothing less than that.
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Originally Posted by ratbastid
Open and honest communication is YOUR JOB.
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Hear, hear... the man knows what he's talking about.
