apolian,
It's understandable that you would prefer to not have to deal with the subject, but unfortunately that won't make the feelings she's having go away. I agree with ngdawg. As painful as it may be, I think you two really need to have an honest discussion about how it's affecting you, her, and your relationship. It's the only way for either of you to truly heal and be able to move on.
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