As a woman, I love both giving and receiving, but only if there is enough time to do either one properly. Rushing oral is not as fun as doing a quickie (intercourse)... it needs time. But not too much time!!...
My mouth goes numb sometimes from giving a bj, and then I become far less effective "on the job." (Hell, when I got back from my 2.5 month summer of research and gave ktspktsp a bj for the first time, my cheek muscles were sore all the next day!)